A rule of life is to living as a cornerstone is to a building. Each is the basis for everything else around it; it is what orients and sets direction. Ever since first being introduced to the idea of a “rule of life” when I was a student at divinity school, I have been attracted to the wisdom of ordering and shaping one’s life deliberately in this way.
Up until I was twenty-five years old, I was focused on becoming a priest. In service to this purpose, my rule of life was long and complex. It included things like saying the Morning and Evening Prayer daily and observing all the holy days in the liturgical calendar (all 100+). It kept me busy – and frustrated. Honoring my rule in the breach more than in the observance, I tinkered with it frequently.
In the next quarter-century of my life, I gradually set my sights on a higher calling – becoming a Christian. As a result, my rule became simpler. In fact, simplicity itself became a value.
Now I am in the third quarter-century of my life. In addition to still serving as a priest and living as a Christian, I have embraced a more fundamental purpose – becoming a human being. By that I mean two things: a creature that is just a tiny part of a vast web of living beings that inhabit this fragile Earth, our island home, and a unique creature that is blessed by God with memory, reason, and will (Eucharistic Prayer C). So the rule has become not just simpler still but also broader. For instance, when I say I will act justly, I mean not just to other human beings but all other living beings.
Throughout all the renditions of my rule of life, there have been many adjustments in the particulars. Yet I also note thematic constancy: prayer, study, exercise, hospitality – and generosity.
In the context of this stewardship campaign, I can report that I have certainly had no regrets and many confirmations of the wisdom of being generous. The confirmations have come in the form of joy over making a difference, contentment over having done the right thing, peace in sharing something of myself…and, at times, a sense of regret over not choosing to be as generous as I could have.
And that is why I still find generosity to be part of a good rule to live by.
What is your rule of life?
Up until I was twenty-five years old, I was focused on becoming a priest. In service to this purpose, my rule of life was long and complex. It included things like saying the Morning and Evening Prayer daily and observing all the holy days in the liturgical calendar (all 100+). It kept me busy – and frustrated. Honoring my rule in the breach more than in the observance, I tinkered with it frequently.
In the next quarter-century of my life, I gradually set my sights on a higher calling – becoming a Christian. As a result, my rule became simpler. In fact, simplicity itself became a value.
Now I am in the third quarter-century of my life. In addition to still serving as a priest and living as a Christian, I have embraced a more fundamental purpose – becoming a human being. By that I mean two things: a creature that is just a tiny part of a vast web of living beings that inhabit this fragile Earth, our island home, and a unique creature that is blessed by God with memory, reason, and will (Eucharistic Prayer C). So the rule has become not just simpler still but also broader. For instance, when I say I will act justly, I mean not just to other human beings but all other living beings.
Throughout all the renditions of my rule of life, there have been many adjustments in the particulars. Yet I also note thematic constancy: prayer, study, exercise, hospitality – and generosity.
In the context of this stewardship campaign, I can report that I have certainly had no regrets and many confirmations of the wisdom of being generous. The confirmations have come in the form of joy over making a difference, contentment over having done the right thing, peace in sharing something of myself…and, at times, a sense of regret over not choosing to be as generous as I could have.
And that is why I still find generosity to be part of a good rule to live by.
What is your rule of life?
The Rev. Canon David Norgard
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