Showing posts with label Vida Joven. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Vida Joven. Show all posts

Thursday, October 5, 2017

The Sunday Sermon: Vida Joven Day

This year, and I hope every year, we are focussed on community. Here at St. Paul’s Cathedral we are focussing on not just the idea of community, but of incorporating community in our daily and church lives in a very real way. And we have the perfect example of operating in community today, for we are celebrating Vida Joven de Mexico, formerly known as Dorcas House, our orphanage and foster home in Tijuana, MX. We support Vida Joven to love, protect and educate some 30 - 35 children. These children have been abandoned, either because their parents are in prison, incapacitated by drugs, or in the case of more than one of our kids, found wandering the streets of Tijuana at 2 or 3 in the morning. These kids have been taken into Vida Joven, loved, helped to become part of the community. We make a huge effort to see that they are well educated, and we have even sent three of our older girls to University.

It is thanks to the late Stephen Velez-Confer and many others, some of whom are here today, that Vida Joven exists at all. The devoted and dedicated people from Los Angeles, and Orange County who had started the house by sheltering a number of kids who were incarcerated with their parents in prison, had run out of steam and fundraising ideas, and wanted to retire. The house was in danger of closing, until, as our former dean Scott Richardson said, “I sent a van load of bleeding heart clergy and sharp pencilled business people down to asses the situation. They came back saying, ‘after much prayer we have determined that we must take this on.’ ” So we did, and now we celebrate.

Today’s celebrations include a forum in which Beth Beall, our fantastic program director, has show
n us life at the home, through pictures and discussion, with a q&a session led by Silvia, our house director and chair of the Mexican board of directors. Sylvia’s niece, Marcia, will speak from the pulpit in a few minutes to tell us about the work of the past year, and where we hope to go from here. And Amy Dagman has worked all year with the children to produce a wonderful art show, located in the Fifth Avenue courtyard. The art is for sale. The proceeds from the sale go directly to the children of Vida Joven. Thank you, Amy! Finally, there will be great food, both at the forum and after the 10:30 service. So today we have a fiesta in honor of Vida Joven and its mission.

As mentioned, the mission of the home is to love, protect, and educate every child who comes to Vida Joven. Some have called Vida Joven, our flagship outreach project. For well over ten years now, we, and many others throughout the diocese and beyond, have worked to ensure its viability. It takes much work, prayer and a big investment in this special community to make it work.

And our lessons today focus upon the importance of community. Community and obedience.

In Exodus, we find the Israelites traveling through the desert, landing in Rephadim to camp. Repahdim is in what is now Saudi Arabia, so we can only imagine how hot and thirsty the campers were. Well, they complained to Moses, begging him to get them some water. They were so angry at Moses for taking them on such a journey that Moses feared for his life. Their sense of community was overcome by their physical needs, and they were on the brink of disobeying. They quarreled, and literally tested the Lord. Not obedient, and only feeling a sense of community in a negative way. Not good.

However, God responds. God graciously and faithfully responds not to the people's characteristic lack of faith, but to their characteristic human needs. Moreover, God does so in a manner that provides not simply for the physical need, but in a way that restores the community! Here, working through Moses, God causes water, which often rains down from heaven) to spring forth from the earth. By working through Moses, the community is restored even as the people's bodily needs are met And our reading from Philippians, shows us the very meaning of community, as the writer urges us to: “Do nothing from selfish ambition and conceit...” and “Let each of you look not to your own interests, but to the interests of others”. (Philippians 25: 2,3). He goes on to say, “Let the same mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus, who, existing in the form of God, didn’t consider equality with God a thing to be exploited, but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant..., being made in human likeness .” (25: 5-7)

So to share the mind of Christ is to let go of our self-interest and put others first. It’s to seek what’s best for all concerned in every situation. It’s to lose oneself in pursuit of God’s kingdom and experience the fullness of God’s peace, joy and love.

As Paul says, “You have the strength of community, not only those who are mature in the faith, but children whose spontaneity is always insightful and refreshing”.

These lessons are learned every day at Vida Joven. The children there have the strength of community, and know that they need to put others first. I’m not saying they always do it, but they do know that In order to live successfully in community there, they must obey the rules and see to one another’s well being. Many of these kids aspire to a fine future.

Awhile back, at an informal get together with Beth Beall the older children were tossing around a volleyball while seated in a circle. They started talking about the future, and as they passed the ball back and forth, they told each other what they aspired to do in the future: veterinarian , photographer, chef, nurse, and many other prospective careers. No-one laughed or sneered at these aspirations. because these kids support each other, and live in their community as Paul has suggested. So we invite all of you to make a home in your hearts for these fantastic children.

Now, I would like to introduce Marcia Laborin, Sylvia’s niece, who will tell you more about the wonderful work of Vida Joven, but before I do, I ask you to remember:

  • In Tijuana 6,000 children live on the street
  • 80,000 do not attend school
  • 400 used to live with their parents in prison

Vida Joven is changing those horrific numbers, one child at a time.

The Rev. Canon Joan Butler Ford 
 Exodus17:1-7; PS 25:1-9; Philippians 2: 1-13; Matthew21:23-32

Thursday, April 20, 2017

News from Vida Joven/Dorcas House

Vida Joven de Mexico is a foster home/orphanage in Tijuana, Mexico that loves, protects and educates up to 35 children who have been abandoned, abused and neglected. With an enormous outpouring of support from the St. Paul’s community and beyond, the program has been delivering on this promise since 2006. For many years the fundraising mechanism in the US has been known as Dorcas House and the successes, measured in lives impacted across the border, have been numerous. Appropriately on Valentine’s Day in 2015 during Diocesan Convention, the Episcopal Diocese of San Diego voted to formally support Vida Joven/Dorcas House. Thus a non-profit was born and has thrived in its independence.

Due to the on-line nature of our operations and the wide-spread geographic makeup of our board of directors, it has become clear that maintaining an office for Vida Joven is an unnecessary luxury. Our monthly board meetings are now held exclusively at Good Sam in University City, due to its relative ease of access for many board members. In fairly short order a new mail receiving system has been set up and a few file drawers and shelves have been carved out in a home office and, Voila! Vida Joven, while evolving operationally, stays much the same!

We will continue to receive some mail going forward through the Cathedral office. With regular (but less frequent) trips to Bankers Hill, coinciding with a weekly deposit at our bank in Hillcrest and occasional meetings in the area, our close relationship with the Cathedral will continue as we evolve ever farther away from the original home base. Our ability to grow and expand has been possible due to that connectedness for which we are grateful.

I remain a member of the St. Paul’s community through all of these changes - active in the choir and on the Finance and Endowment committees – so my ability to directly serve the Cathedral if/when necessary will not change. These are exciting times in the life of Vida Joven de Mexico as we continue to pursue a better life for the children in our care in Mexico.

Thank you for your continued prayers and support,


Elizabeth Carey
Director of Operations
Vida Joven de Mexico

Sunday, October 16, 2016

The Sunday Sermon: Vida Joven Day


Six words: Love Christ, Serve Others, Welcome All.

These six words, the mission statement of our cathedral, also encompass our purpose here today. For we are celebrating Vida Joven de Mexico, our foster home in Tijuana, MX. We support Vida Joven to love, protect and educate some 30 - 35 children. These children have been abandoned, either because their parents are in prison, or incapacitated by drugs. Last year I talked about one of our kids, Rosario, who arrived at the casa having wandered the streets of Tijuana at a very young age, all alone at 2 o’clock in the morning . Now Rosario is doing well, has new glasses, has caught up to her peers socially and loves school. Just one of our success stories, which include housing and educating these kids, and even sending three of our older girls to University.

It is thanks to Stephen Velez-Confer and many others, some of whom are here today, that Vida Joven exists at all. The devoted and dedicated people who had started the house by sheltering a number of kids who were incarcerated with their parents in prison, had run out of steam and fundraising ideas, and wanted to retire. The house was in danger of closing, until, as our former dean Scott said, “I sent a van load of bleeding heart clergy and sharp pencilled business people down to assess the situation. They came back saying, ‘after much prayer we have determined that we must take this on.’ ” So we did, and now we celebrate.

Today’s celebrations include a forum in which Beth Beall, our program director, will show us life at the home, through pictures and discussion, followed by a q&a session led by Silvia, our house director and chair of the Mexican board of directors. Sylvia’s niece, Marcia, will join us in the pulpit in a few minutes to tell us about the work of the past year, and where we hope to go from here. And Amy Dagman has worked all year with the children to produce a wonderful art show, located in the sixth ave courtyard, near the Guild room. The art is for sale. Finally, there will be great food, both at the forum and after the 10:30 service. So today we have a fiesta in honor of Vida Joven and its mission.

The mission of the home is to love, protect, and educate every child who comes to Vida Joven. Some have called Vida Joven, formerly known as Dorcas House, our flagship outreach project. For ten years now, we, and many others throughout the diocese and beyond, have worked to ensure its viability. It takes much work, persistence and a lot of prayer to keep our home open.

And our Gospel today focuses upon the importance of two things: prayer and persistence. “Jesus told his disciples a parable about their need to pray always and not to lose heart.” The parable is a call for us to be persistent in prayer and action. After all, the annoying widow pushed and pushed until the judge finally threw up his hands and granted her what she wanted. The widow’s persistence alone seemingly leads the judge to act justly. But Jesus indicates that God is the unseen actor. “Will not God grant justice for his chosen ones who cry to him day and night?” (Luke 18:7).

The point is that only God can bring about justice in an unjust world. That is why we must pray and not give up in our work. As we contemplate our own prayer habits, let’s look at some prayers written by the children of Vida Joven.

Lord, I ask that you cleanse our hearts.
Lord, I ask that you give us one more day of life and strength.
The Lord loves you, and I love you.
Dear God, watch over Silvia.
The Lord calms our pain.
Lord have mercy on those who need you.
Lord I call on you for the Mothers of the House. I love them.
Lord bless our families.
To my family, I love you very much.
Heal with much love.
Jesus argues, if an unjust judge can be moved by persistent petitions to help a stranger for whom he has no regard, how much more "will God help his own chosen ones who cry to him day and night!”

Therefore, always pray and don't lose heart.

So this parable is intended to be an encouragement for us to pray continually and persist in our work.

Now, I would like to introduce Marcia Laborin, Sylvia’s niece, who will tell you more about the wonderful work of Vida Joven, but before I do, I ask you to remember: In Tijuana
6,000 children live on the street
80,000 do not attend school
400 used to live with their parents in prison
Vida Joven is changing those horrific numbers, one child at a time.

Jeremiah 31:27-34, Psalm 119:97-104, Luke 18:1-8
The Rev. Canon Joan Butler Ford

Tuesday, February 16, 2016

You're invited to A Little Miracle

You're invited to A LITTLE MIRACLE...

a Bollywood-themed fundraising event to benefit Karely & all of the Vida Joven children!  (Indian cuisine; Indian-style apparel welcomed)

Saturday, April 9, 6:30-9:00 p.m. 4626 Barrington Ct. , Bonita CA  (outdoor event at private home; ample street parking)


Seating is limited to 100 persons. Please purchase your $50 ticket online at http://weblink.donorperfect.com/ALittleMiracle.

Questions? Contact Elizabeth Carey at 619-786-4387.